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Have We Confused Kindness with Lowering Expectations?

By Darrágh Conway

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In our determination to make education more inclusive, have we unintentionally started lowering academic expectations in the name of kindness?

It is an uncomfortable question, but one that I believe deserves serious consideration.

Throughout my experience in education, I have become increasingly interested in the relationship between inclusion, academic challenge and effective teaching. While adapting learning to meet individual needs is essential, there is a fundamental difference between supporting pupils to succeed and reducing what we believe they are capable of achieving.

Consider a pupil struggling with an extended writing task. Should we remove the challenge entirely, or provide explicit instruction, modelling and scaffolding to help them overcome it?

Both approaches may appear supportive, but their educational implications are very different.

Rosenshine’s Principles of Instruction remind us that effective teaching involves breaking learning into manageable steps, checking understanding and gradually developing independence. The purpose is not to eliminate challenge, but to make challenging learning accessible.

Of course, genuine inclusion requires recognising individual needs, and appropriate expectations will differ between pupils. However, we must be careful that differentiation does not become an automatic justification for lowering academic ambition.

Perhaps the real question we should be asking ourselves is whether we are removing barriers to learning or unintentionally removing opportunities for pupils to develop.

Kindness and academic rigour should never be viewed as opposing principles.

Ultimately, the kindest thing we can do for a pupil is not always to make learning easier, but to provide the support, encouragement and effective instruction that makes challenging learning possible.

Because true inclusion should expand opportunity, not limit potential.

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